Does anyone remember that old song from Salt-N-Pepa Sexy Noises Turn Me On? It was one I used to listen to over and over again, mostly because it is so true. The sound of my lover's voice, the deep throaty growls as he tells me that he wants me. I get off every time.
When it's just me alone with my toys a little dirty talk goes a long way. Of course a battery powered lover can't talk back, but I've got a great imagination. And sometimes, I like to be the one doing all the talking anyway. "Mmmm, that's right. Do you like it? Yeah..." There is nothing hotter than dirty talk for me.
What is it about the power of words to get such a reaction? Great sex uses as many of your senses as possible — touch, taste, smell and now, using a little bit of special language, you can totally get turned on by your hearing, too. The more senses are being used, especially when they are all already heightened, creates a huge thrill. It's like the difference between giving chocolate to just anyone and giving it to someone on a diet. So indulge a little and say what you're thinking. Even if you're the only one around to hear it.
Labels: Masturbation, Music, Sexy, Toys, Turn Ons
I totally agree. I like to talk dirty to women ASAP, even when they pretend to be apprehensive about it. If they're interested, they'll admit that I turned them on.